For those people who cannot keep secrets, we are able to say something to give them a little justifies.
Why people are unable to control leakage privacies? It often has the relationship with the uneasy mind and emotional conflict, so speak out it is actually a kind of catharsis, which an attempt to alleviate the psychological pressure. At the moment the parties eager to talk, anxiety involved in a local event, but often too late to consider the “whole picture”, including the consequence.
In interpersonal relationships, emotional over-involved and overdrafts personal information leaks due to improper self-exposure. People should do moderate exposure (a communicative skills) to promote emotional affinity, which are more easily recognized and accepted by others.
Under normal circumstances, people who are lack of friends is difficult to grasp own on the “emotional hunger”. A strong needs to want to communicate with people and coupled with only a few exchanges of objects, such kind of people often cannot how to talk the things to the others. Sometimes the other side said a few slightly harsh words can make them deeply moved, and then get rid of doubts. Under this condition, they are easy to cheated and betrayed.
Some people mistakenly think that frank principle applies to all relationships. They know that someone is prying the privacy of others and keen on rumors gossip, they will not respond. You could know the consequence! For us, keeping secrets and opening mind are not contradictory. Frank used to treat people and the secret for myself to enjoy. If you think that frank must be the soul revealed, this is not a misunderstanding, but is a tall order.
How long for the woman are able to hold a secret? The answer is: 47 hours and 15 minutes. The research for 3000 aged 18 years to 65-year-old female, there are four of every 10 women could not restrain secret, no matter how secret and privacy are. More than half of women tell the secret under the influence of alcohol, and boyfriend, husband, friend and mother often hear the secret at first.
Studies have shown that women will hear three secrets per week, and they will disclose the secret at least one person. Women usually disclose the secret to the people who have any relationship with the event, and disclose to social circle.